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We all have spent at least one thing we saved out of our life on a useless thing,which isn’t realised at the moment but later it feels as if some pieces from the puzzle are lost.

However,we have to carry out the burden we created for ourselves and we do so as well. It seems hard to be done and even impossible at times but eventually we take ourselves out from the prison where we imprisoned ourselves or, our minds or, our hearts too. And at times it feels as if we have overcome the past or the lost we experienced but actually it keeps haunting you even from far behind.

At the end of the day you need to do is to smile to yourself for the courage you showed and for the love you showered to yourself for carrying out the burden on your back and for not giving up even you were exhausted..

How do you cope up with the things that are beyond your power or authority???

For a normal human, feelings are the most privileged pleasure and the most underrated curse. You wanna know why, lemme explain sometimes in life you want to feel something but you just can’t due to various reasons and at times you just don’t wanna feel something but eventually you’ll feel it which you can’t deny or run off. I can understand that people say that it’s for the betterment but can somebody explain why must we are always the ones to understand, why can’t we feel the way want may it be just for a while.

Hey!!!

Long time no see. How have you been?? Let’s talk about apologies today. What is an apology, Why does someone make an apology, Is it necessary to accept the apology???

Apology is something that makes nothing but the peace of mind of yours for the mistake or guilt or wrong doing to someone. It is made to make that someone as well as you feel better after any sort of mistake you made.

Apologies must be made but it might not be accepted everytime it is made. It’s because not every mistake is same as well as person. People these days have their own thoughts haunting them,so their minds perceive things differently and something that you might seem as joke or funny the other might get hurt. And at times, your apology might be accepted but you might not be forgiven the n which I don’t find anything wrong because you made fun or, joke about yourself and the other person prevented himself/herself from getting hurt. It doesn’t seems as unfair or unreliable to me at least. Even if you are in this kind of situation make decisions whatever you feel is good for you cause you deserve the whole world and I’ll always be proud of you for thinking of yourself 🙂🙂

As a normal human, there are a lot of things that you feel. To be exact only thing about yourself that you cannot change is the way that you feel. You can never ever change your feelings just so on cause we humans or animals we all behave our behaviour changes according to our feelings.

If you feel something is not okay or something is great either of them is fine. There are good day and indeed there are bad ones too. There can be day when you feel anxious or lonely or lost ; I understand it’s not the best or one of the best or even a productive day but trust me if you’re able to feel it ,you are also able to cope with it as well. And I also know that sometimes what you feel takes over what you know however I hope you’ll be strong enough to control yourself even in the worst.

Rely on yourself and trust your guts, courage. No-one is gonna understand or feel the same for you. Let yourself feel every feeling, don’t strict yourself. Even it’s the worst you’ll learn.

Yours, Speck of dust

You know what friendship is something that everyone can have but not everyone can maintain it properly. May be I am also the one who cannot do it, don’t know what is the reason but it seems like it.

Today read something which was so relatable so I thought I’ll just write it down so that I could share even to one more person who relates. so it goes like this;”Nobody invites me to hangout, Nobody asks me to chill with them, Nobody talks/texts to me unless I talk/text them first, Nobody asks me whether I’m doing fine unless they have to get something from me but the moment I say I have no friends they just show up like they care, they ever did or like they were there for me”. I found it so true. Yeah it just felt so hard.

These few days I gotta realise that nothing comes without a price, no-one comes to you without a purpose, nothing is forever every big or small thing expires, also a friendship. And keep your circle very small consisting of people who care for you and whom you care about only that way you’ll live and be happy.

It’s exactly 12:00 am and I’m about to sleep but one thought was there in my mind the whole day that was regarding the use.

There are people who see others as opportunity not as an individual, There are people value others by weighing how much of use are they worth of,there are people who calculate the thing they can get from others. And some people are so foolish that they think people he/she is being valued, respected without being used or without discussing the advantages or disadvantages. These days poeple look forward for uses or benifits or advantages in every way possible either it be friendship, siblings, cousins or whatever.

Someone loves you, someone loves being around you and someone loves the thing that you can do for them.(#copied) I read it a few days before in social &, In this period of time I found it so relatable. I think most of us can relate to it and it’s us who should understand the difference as well.

A companion that makes you feel the sense of happiness or sadness, without judging you , accepts you no matter what you are and tries to help you out in whatever situation you are in is a friend. Defining a friend in such a way might seem like cliche to you but for me it is the definition of friends I always had in my mind.

But due to unfortunate circumstances or may be I was unfortunate I never really had friends. I’m not saying this out of impulse. I’ve been thinking about it for such long time who are my actual friends where are they?? I’ve always known that I really don’t have bunch of friends but those people whom I thought were my friends, now I came to realise that they never were. I never meant bad for them but they never took as good. So it’s okay, somewhere along the road,maybe I was at fault, may be I was wrong or my speech was wrong even though I don’t know what is wrong.

So I won’t tell anything to anybody from now on. May be it was fate which was already written by the god. So, if you have someone to hold on every now and then,to hug you when you are at your lowest,to laugh at each other’s lame jokes and to cry on each silly or big things, cherish them and tell them I need you to be with me,I need you to hold me when hope you do so will I.

FOREVER?? It is kinda funny to me

Although We have said the word forever million times till date but have you ever wondered what is that forever means and did you meant it everytime you said it?? Are those things or people with you whom you promised to be together forever are there may it is be just a friendship let alone be other complicated relationships.

Actually, the forever we got to hear or we said was never a for ever cause that never happened at least to me. It was one of the biggest lie that everyone believe. Don’t you dare say that you didn’t uttered forever cause you did and everyone did. That forever favourite book which you used to read so much is not favourite now,you don’t even know where is that forever friend of yours,you threw that forever favourite t-shirt of yours,you lost your beautiful smile which you used to tell it is forever, your parents who promised to you that they’ll be there forever will leave you at some point in life and last but not the least your own heart which was and still with you from like forever will stop beating one day leaving you on death bed. These are just some examples from my side that nothing is forever.

All I know is that these are all the illusion you had,you have and will have till the end of the day on earth. But we still have to understand the fact that even if you know nothing is forever you have to life your life to the fullest. #Just Opinions

You know what, we all have good and bad memories. Those memories that makes us laugh our lungs out and cry our heart out. Usually it’s all the happy memories that makes us cry.

There are many relations like friends,best friends,lovers
Even the m and some unnamed relationships, those people with whom we were, are the one we have memories. The memories of those people is the thing we miss,those memories will be alive with in your heart even if you are not with that person anymore. Maybe we don’t miss the person now but the person used to be before. Then the memories becomes a new friend thinking about which you can smile,laugh,feel sad and even cry.

Even the memories hurt you still tend to keep it cause you need someone like you had in the past. I know it sounds cliche but at a corner of heart we all know that. So might be something that doesn’t make you happy but not sad either. Anyways this is a experience which taught me a lot of things and also that to be able to let go of things. Yours, Someone 🖤