How do you deal??

How do you cope up with the things that are beyond your power or authority???

For a normal human, feelings are the most privileged pleasure and the most underrated curse. You wanna know why, lemme explain sometimes in life you want to feel something but you just can’t due to various reasons and at times you just don’t wanna feel something but eventually you’ll feel it which you can’t deny or run off. I can understand that people say that it’s for the betterment but can somebody explain why must we are always the ones to understand, why can’t we feel the way want may it be just for a while.